Move away from either/or, thinking. That really messes us up and separates us as a community.
I need my choices to be more than testosterone/estrogen, Male/female/, gay/straight. Instead, we could look at ourselves as both and acknowledge there is a spectrum of being, just like the rest of the population on planet Earth.
Please do not view me as someone who needs to be “fixed” and accept that I have a right to self-determination. I am normal …for myself. Fix society, not me!
Please ask and use the pronoun of my choice of gender. “They” is a perfectly acceptable pronoun for some of us who feel we are a “two-spirit person.”